I definitely do my best thinking before bed...it's kinda like pillow talk, but by myself (wow, like that doesn't sound like I'm alone...ha). You can ask any of my friends and my best advice and deeper convos are at night...and I'm now publicly apologizing to those few who I keep up for hours at a time talking about deep stuff...ending at 3am. Nonetheless, appreciate it, cause you don't know when you'll get it out of me again. But lucky for you lovely blog readers of mine, you get a real look about who I am as I thinker.
Tonight, however, I've got something on the brain...
Anyways, as I have said before, I am a Roman Catholic. As I told someone before, if I go to church and don't get the bread AND wine, I feel incomplete like I got nothing at all. However, I'm a Catholic with a twist. I believe in my God, I believe in asking for forgiveness, I believe He always has my back, but do I believe that someone will go to Hell if they are homosexual?...not so much anymore, because Love is Love. I see like this: So many people I have talked to have said they tried to fight being homosexual. I believe them because I think society still isn't used to it yet, myself included. They aren't going anywhere. My point is I truly believe God knows what you're going to do and ultimately your fate before it all happens; therefore, God made homosexuals. They didn't chose to be...I'm sure if they had a choice to be straight or gay, most WOULD PROBABLY chose straight...being supposedly normal...not different. He loves everyone, and I don't think he sees it as a problem.
Ok, so I do love Him with everything in me, but I do not want this post to be simply about what God thinks, because I'm not Him, so that was my 2 cents about it.
This may be like pointing out the obvious, but I'm not gay. I don't know how it feels to be gay...I'm pretty sure it's a scary feeling as far as how others may view you, but WHO CARES. You are who you are, and if you can't be who you are in front of the people around you, leave them in the dust and find people who will accept you. Be PROUD to be gay, straight, bi, etc. You aren't living life fully until you are comfortable in your own skin. You aren't truly who you are until you come to terms with it. Now I DID say in my earlier post that I was uncomfortable seeing homosexuals in public...holding hands, kissing, etc...but in the end, who cares about what I think! If I were gay and loved my partner, I would want the world to know that I was in love and was proud of it. I wouldn't want to be scared to go out and hold hands in the grocery store...isn't that what heterosexual couples do??? Why can't I??
As far as marriage goes, in the end, you can't help who you love...but let's be real, please stick to the same species...no donkey, giraffe, or cat marriages. Love is truly a powerful emotion, and once you have the chance to experience it, it's the best. Be who you are, homosexuals and heterosexuals alike.
Finally, many see being gay as a curse or kind of like 'why me?'...truly we should be saying 'why not me?' Honestly, I see it as a blessing in disguise. He gave you a gift...you have the chance to open others eyes to the true meaning of love. It's the BEST feeling in the world to love and be loved...everyone should feel it. Homosexuals ARE people too. Love has no race, or gender...love is just love.
So honestly, get out there and prove to the world that you have every right to be open to who you love, show your affection, and if they don't like it, to Hell with them...you're not goin anywhere.
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