One of the BEST qualities to have in life (in my opinion) is patience. I believe it takes a strong person to be patient and without a doubt, I am thankful God has given me such a gift; otherwise, I don't think I'd be as level headed as I am. I am surprisingly patient at my job, dealing with others and children, and people do open up to me as a result. I love hearing stories and what others are going through. I don't have a big mouth, so I do feel honored sometimes when friends and random strangers pour their hearts out to me or even tell me the most random things ever. Now I do have to put this out there...there ARE some aspects of my life that I have NO patience whatsoever in...examples include: waiting for a phone call (yes someone is targeted here...ha), school, red lights, food, and sometimes...customers. Let's be real, I talk to plenty of people every day at my job...whether they're in a rush, slow (NO not retarded), difficult, happy as can be, or just plain rude. My favs (surprisingly) are the rude customers, because honestly I just laugh it all off in the end...I may cuss 'em out a few times over in my head...but that's not the point. To me, I look at it like this: They had a bad day, they're annoyed, whatever...but they're taking it out on me because I'm in the crossfire...I did nothing wrong (or maybe I did...by smiling??), but in the end I AM THE BETTER PERSON, because I'm not letting my emotions get the best of me and take it out on an innocent bystander. Control is also another trait a lot of individuals do not have a grasp of. Human emotion is a powerful thing, but being able to control it, it is then that you succeed. Talking it through helps (as I've learned)...hey maybe I should be a psychologist...I should get paid for my advice dang it!
Update: So you know how yesterday I said a few things about my boyfriend not showing his emotions on a few things we do? Well, I told him I started a blog and gave him the link...I said you should read it sometime (HINTING maybe he should read it)...his response was It was taking too long to load so I left it alone. So basically that means he will never look at this; therefore, I can blast him all I want...ha! I wouldn't do that...though it makes an interesting read.
Anyways, I'm sitting here on my Nutrition book and my butt is getting numb, soooo I think that means it's time to lay down. Espanol manana...oh yea and that tarea! Laterz..
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